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所謂一輩子的朋友
並不代表一定天天見面
而是以某種行式一輩子相互扶持
試著以對待一輩子朋友的態度來對待初識的人人沒有自卑感就顯現不出魅力
一旦能自信的面對自卑之處
魅力便會產生
有了自信人生便會完全改觀這個月除了雜誌你看了幾本書
今年到目前此為止你看了幾本書
單身時不看書
一輩子就都不會看書
而後很可能跟不看書的人結婚
生下的小孩也不會看書所謂的戀愛
並不是拼命去捉住一個人
正好相反
能被對方捉住
才代表自己能去愛別人
談戀愛不應是刻意去捉住對方
而是該去盡量想辦法被對方捉住
這絕不是所謂的消極
人人都應該積極去享受這種
愛上別人
並且被對方捕捉住的感覺有的人在喜歡上一個人時
會追得太勤而把對方嚇跑
其實這不是因為追得太勤
而是因為一心想黏住對方
拼命想黏住對方的人
表情會變得很拼命
明明是在戀愛
但卻看起來陰沉不開朗
對方看到他陰鬱的表情
聽到他陰沉的聲音後
不打退堂鼓也難禮物不應該是等對象出現後才買
買完禮物之後對象自然會出現一個不幸的人往往不是因為不夠小心
而是小心過頭了已婚的人過去也曾有過單身生活
只不過當時所過的是幼稚的單身生活
成人的單身時光所能作的事
比起幼稚的單生時光更充實許多面對自己喜歡的事物
你能坦率的說”喜歡”嗎?
一旦產生防備的心
喜歡的感覺便會漸漸消失刻意想讓自己拍起來好看
往往都會拍得不好
單純自然的表情就是最美的自己唯有自己動手作菜
才能體會別人作菜給自己吃的那種喜悅想獲得讚美
先讚美別人所謂的戀愛就是兩個人一起做出的愚蠢行為
做不出愚蠢行為的人是不懂得怎樣真心去愛人的懂得享受變化的人一定能掌握機會
成敗的關鍵往往在被二度拒絕後
是否仍能保持微笑試著打電話給多年不見的朋友
試著進入不曾進入的店
開始學習新的事物
在電車裡發現旁邊的人在看有趣的書
不妨問問對方書名
機會會由此產生少一些擁有欲
多一些行動欲
擁有欲越大
行動欲越小能找到無法言喻的理由
這才是真正的愛
所謂無法言喻的理由
不表示自己沒有發現對方的優點
而是早已發現喜歡對方的理由
卻不知到該如何用言語表達讓今日有所感動
對明日抱以希望<hr>
<font color=blue>今日有緣者，他日也相逢。</font color=blue>
<font color=green>@寶@ @寶@</font color=green>A very touching piece of passage. I don\’t know if i am right but I think friendship and love relationship is simply a line apart. People should treat their partner as their closest friend, share feelings and secrets (evening the silliest things that they did!), care for them and be there for them whenever they need you there, and tell them if they have done wrong. I find that people tend to expect too much from their partner and try to change them to fit into their liking. This does not enhance the relationship but instead putting stress onto it. If you love someone you love them who they are not what they are. You give and not ask for return. If they love you they will give in return without you even asking for it.
A friend is one you grow to love, trust, and honor.
A friend is one who will treat you the same.
A friend is one who loves to share, even a little teddy bear.
A friend is one to cheer you up, when you are feeling down.
A friend is one who makes you feel wanted.
Your lover is the one you grow to love, trust, and honor.
Your lover is the one who will treat you the same.
Your lover is the one who loves to share, even a little teddy bear.
Your lover is the one to cheer you up, when you are feeling down.
Your lover is the one who makes you feel wanted.<CENTER><hr><WIDTH=50>
<blink>懂得放手的人，才會得到快樂。</blink>
</CENTER>懂得放手的人，才會得到快樂。
whether a friend can become \’a friend for life\’ depends on how you see the word FRIENDSHIP. Only those who treasure and understand \’friendship\’ deserves to have a friend for life!
Last week I did something that have hurt a very close friend of mine and we almost ended the friendship. But we managed to solve the problem and become even closer than we were before. In return to an email from him which asked what the word friend really means, i wrote him this:F orgive me for the sorrow i brought you.
R emember the precious moments shared.
I magine I ever lost you,
E very second will be like hell.
N o matter what the future brings us,
D on\’t forget we will be friends forever.He returned to me the following:
F or we are always friends,
R emeber this I pled.
I n situations you need me,
E verytime I am here.
N ear and far our hearts will drift,
D estiny will adhere.Bring your heart out to your friends and to show them the loving care!
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